Randy
You mentioned that you have to haul your Danforth anchor up through the pulpit. We keep our regular Bruce on the port bow roller all the time, with a 22# Danforth inside the anchor locker with chain always attached. I have the rode in the lazarette ready to shackle onto the Danforth. We also have a high tensile Danforth in the anchor locker, with chain and separate rode aft. My Danforth anchor holder is on the starboard side of the pulpit on the horizontal part.
When we use the Danforth, and when retrieving it, I don’t go through the pulpit. Instead, I pull it up onto the starboard roller. Then I lean out over the pulpit, or through it (depending on how my back feels!) and raise it up to fit onto the holder. The shank of the anchor hangs down and it is ready to go again, with the chain fair led outside and through the roller. I can tie off the shank to the pulpit base with bungee cord to keep it from flopping around. An alternative would be to place the holder low on a pulpit stanchion (with the different angled holder because it's on a vertical tube, not the horizontal stanchion tube) and have the flukes down and the shank up, but either way, the anchor doesn’t have to be threaded through the pulpit. In fact, when starting out, it's easier to lead the chain through the pulpit than the anchor, then connect the rode and splash the anchor from outside the pulpit. Hope that’s clear. Works if you have separate rode for first deployement, but still works when retrieving.
Kerk
Keep asking away, that's how we all got started.
You'll hear lots of opinions on anchors, and heavier is always better. In addition to this forum, I recommend that you do your research on different anchors, and actually try yours out in places that you normally anchor, and back down really hard with your engine to see how it sets. There are lots of anchoring books, spend some time in a marine store and browse through them.
www.catalinaowners.com and sailnet also have articles about anchors and anchoring. Also, chat with other "locals" and see if they have any opinions, as I'm sure they will. You can never have too many anchors on board. All the best.