You have to get the family to use the land facilities whenever possible. Actually, the holding tank is so small, you can't use it all the time, when other facilities are readily available. About pouring the fresh water into the bowl... that won't do anything about the sea water smell. You have to flush with fresh water by plumbing the intake using fresh water (with a "T" from the sink drain). Reason is the water needs to go "THROUGH" the inside of the bowl and out the rim holes. If you don't do that, you are just keeping stagnant sea water INSIDE the bowl, which is causing the smell. You need to keep fresh water moving INSIDE the bowl, out the rim holes, and down to the holding tank.